Listening to Jazz from the Twenties, Thirties, Fourties and watching musicals with Bing, Bob Hope, Fred Astaire activate a “good old day” mentality for me. But, if I start to unpack those days they are no different or maybe worse than what we are experiencing now! In the Twenties the World was recovering from a World War, entering the “Roaring Twenties” (characterized by rebellion against Prohibition) and ending with the “Great Depression.” The Thirties culminated in another World War dragging into the mid-Forties. Many young men and innocents were killed. Including mass Genocide of those of the Jewish faith. I am sure you may identify other glaring problems and tragedies in those decades. The same can be said of the decades following and the centuries that preceded…back to day one.
So here we are…what are we to do? We really cannot fall back into mindless nostalgia. We cannot pick and choose what we love from each era. Although there have been positive developments. Yet, we cannot underestimate the difficulties of our present Age. Regardless of our class, race, gender and other self-appointed and other labels, we are in this together. We are after all together on the same planet. Our actions have consequences in our environment. Our actions have results in our families very often with outcomes that will effect generations to come.
My question is what do we have in common? We know what divides us…it is glaringly apparent. Our nation and our world have become polarized to the nth degree. Compromise is seen as a cop out. Offering “common courtesy” is viewed as a weakness. Every hill is a worthy place to die. Better to fight the fight than open your ears and listen. Reading between the lines is a lost art form. Is a broken heart concealed behind an angry outburst? Or, unbearable loneliness causing a loner to lash out?
Looking back to what was good about the past may bring a comfortable if brief memory. Envisioning a high tech problem-free future may also bring satisfying feelings momentarily. Neither of those options has us acting in and changing the present. In any case, it seems there will be no idealistic utopia for us to arrive at in this life. It is beyond hope to believe that our world cannot and will not be influenced by self-seeking power seeking people, and by the greed that has always been part of our collective history.
If we were to take an exhaustive poll of what we have all experienced as the worst of what humanity sometimes represents it would be overwhelming. To be fair if we listed the best of who we are it may cause us to cry tears of joy about what could be. What we all have in common are many of those things…both sides of the same coin.
How do we leave the worst behind and become our best…together? If you realize that you are linked inextricably together in this world how can we display our worst time and time again? Do you have that type of frame of reference?
I cannot offer an answer without enlisting the help of everyone. It has been said that you really can only change yourself. But, the paradoxical piece of that argument is that it is only by changing yourself first that others will subsequently change. It is a very deliberate and active form of mentoring and essentially leading the way. It is humility in its most basic form. Taking the first move to forgive, taking a step back in an argument and adopting a listening stance and attitude. Being generous with time and resources with those who have very little.
Is it worth it to you to adopt a humble stance, to forgive, to lead toward love? Even if the world will not be perfect this side of heaven. We can start here. Love in action right now takes us out of wistful reminiscing and wishful thinking. It seems like the easiest thing in the world…if someone else takes the first step.
As a Christian and a pastor I believe Christ allows us to take that step in faith as we value others as much as we do ourselves. And further, it is often necessary for us to humble ourselves and put the needs of others ahead of our own.
Instead of imagining how things could be different forgive someone, ask for forgiveness, provide for someone’s need. Bless someone with the best of who you are!